frat boy told me the other day as i was waxing poetic or prattling boorishly on about my coming out process that i am "as out as one can get. its time to get on with it". she meant no harm, she did not come close to hurting my feelings nor did she say it to quash my still passionate reminiscing, she was just stating a fact. she is right, its time to start something different. my blog home had become uncomfortable for many reasons but the biggest reason is that i out grew the topic. not that i no longer have anything gay to say, its just that i am finding i have more. its like buying a sofa without measuring it. you take it home and it doesn't fit the room so you either take it back or find a bigger room. welcome to my bigger room. its still being furnished but you are welcome to sit on the sofa.